Moment of Transparency. Please keep your negative comments to yourself. I am not interested.
I’ve been going through this phase in life where I’m taking responsibility for my own actions and not blaming anyone else for why I am where I am in life. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not miserable in the slightest bit but I see room for improvement. I look back and can’t really remember ever really finishing anything. Other than High School of course, and Massage school, I have never really finished or seen something all the way through to the end. I would do the bare minimum required and anything over that just didn’t happen. On jobs, I would say “ Oh, I’m not going to get promoted anyway, why try? And guess what happened. I never got promoted. In school I never tried for the same reasons. Why? You can’t be smart. Unfortunately, this mindset carried over and showed in my life too. My mindset created a black hole of doubt where if I could have, I would have climbed into it and just disappeared. That was depression, that I didn’t want to admit. Thank God I didn’t stop there and let it continue to defeat me. I finally got the point in life where I questioned that there has to be more than what I’m experiencing. People all around me seem to be enjoying life and are living better so that means that I can too right?
Since that realization, I learned that we are the authors of our story. No matter how bad or good you were treated, or what anyone told you, you cant do, we can change our stories. I know it’s easier said than done but it’s possible. How exciting is that? We can change our futures and we can start now! Now it’s time to change that. Let's get more out of this beautiful life. As long as we are willing to work hard for the final product, you can do anything! We can do hard things and we can have the life we desire.
I just wanted to remind you, ladies, that if you don’t like what you see, you don’t have to settle for it. you can change it. We should do scary things. Doing scary things stretches us and builds our confidence. It helps us to grow. Wake up and start every day with morning affirmations of your greatness. You are worth it.
Let’s continue to fill our cups ladies so we can continue to pour into others from our overflow.